You know how there are those occasions you are hit with a brutal reality that you knew was there, but, at the same time, it wasn’t an issue because it was never really brought up and you didn’t really think a whole lot about it because it was something you never saw with your own eyes?
Then, when you are reminded of Said Brutal Realities you go “Ohhhhhhhhhhh. So THAT’S the deal?” Then everything makes perfect sense and you feel like a huge weight has been lifted and that you really weren’t losing your mind after all?
I love it when that happens. I just hate that I didn’t figure it out way sooner cause it woulda saved me a lotta mental energy. Or maybe I knew it, but, just didn’t want to know that was the deal.